Ken Burch
1 min readOct 31, 2021

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The Urban Dictionary defines the slang slur "Pickmeisha"- a term I'd not previously heard, for the record- as follows "A low maintenance woman who devalues other women by doing the following: A) going 50/50 with him under the guise of building him; B) allowing a man to build on her by getting his money up while giving her lowest ROI; C) paying for dates and giving him money to keep him; D) allowing him to be comfortable and content, while he seeks the women he wants; E) letting him borrow her car while she’s at work;

F) thinking it’s ok for him to be a grown man still living with momma, but thinking he’s going to get himself right and give you the world when he’s really not;

G) an everyday “Pick Me” who hangs out with Pickmaira, Bonnetta, Ratcheta, Bonnetta and Starkeisha and the other Section 8, low budget Pick Me’s."

In what way, precisely, do you think the person who you're responding to their fits that definition? Are you saying she is devaluing you as a woman simply in disagreeing with your indictment of Baldwin on this? that she was somehow disrespecting the death of Halyna Hutchins? Or what?

Why respond with personal abuse, rather than through actually addressing what the other poster said?

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Ken Burch
Ken Burch

Written by Ken Burch

Retired Alaska ferryboat steward, grandparent, sometime poet. Radical yet independent of dogma. Likes nice days, playing banjo and not as yet dying of Covid.

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