So...you are essentially "Bi" or "Pan". It’s good that you've found someone who suits you, but it doesn't mean you are no longer LGBTQ. You weren't wrong about yourself as a teen, and you haven't "gone straight" now. It's just that, at this point, your heart- which, as always, wants what it wants- wanted THIS. Best thing is to just be cool about it.
Written by Ken Burch
Retired Alaska ferryboat steward, grandparent, sometime poet. Radical yet independent of dogma. Likes nice days, playing banjo and not as yet dying of Covid.