It's fair to ask: why is the man's sister OBSESSED with making him identify as gay? What's it to her? I'm pretty sure the LGBTQ community would agree that it's just as out of line to keep demanding a person identify as LGBTQ if they actually aren't as it is to make someone hide an LGBTQ identify if they are. I hope LGBTQ people will address what I've said here and tell me if they believe what I've said is inappropriate or out of line here, since this is really theirs to decide.