I’m sorry you and your husband have had to go through this and I salute the courage you both embody in simply not having been broken. It feels as if you have lived the story of the character Janis Ian sings about in “Society’s Child”-as that young woman’s story might have gone on after the events described in the song, which I’m posting here-thought I should offer a “trigger warning” because I’m not sure what hearing this would do to your head: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=39&v=yW_rYLoIR08&feature=emb_logo