I don't want Israel to disappear- I support its existence within the areas it has the right to exist- the pre-1967 lines, and not the West Bank or Gaza.
I want collective punishment of ALL Palestinians for the crimes of the violent few to end.
I want the collective dehumanization and slander of all Palestinians- and the endless repetition of the false claim that the Palestinian cause is driven solely by antisemitism to end.
I want the teaching, by Israeli schools, of the toxic lie that everyone else in the world wants all Jews dead to end- that teaching does nothing but to raise children in a culture of trauma for the sake of raising them in a culture of trauma.
Israel doesn't need to do any of those things to be "secure"- and doing those things has never made it secure.