I agree that all women deserve protection against abusers and none of my comments are I'm defense of actual abusive men. The ones I'm talking about are the ones who are decent but constantly rejected nonetheless, the ones whose luck with women will never change no matter what they do. Why should those men- not the total bastards, but the ones I'm thinking of, have to just stay with women here if no woman here will ever give them any response but "I just want to be friends"? What good does it do to doom them to nothing but rejection until they die?