Even if this creepy, entitled old bastard- and I'm 62, so I'm allowed to call him that- had no predatory intent, he had no right to talk to that girl that way, no right to give her commands, no right to treat her as if she was his employee- and mind you, no boss has any right to talk TO an employee like that- and nobody ever has the right to touch anybody else's child or even their own child like that without consent. Everyone, at any age, has the right to personal boundaries.