Er...."being offered erotic adventures"? You seriously see her situation that way? And...since you appear to need a refresher course in Decent Guy 101- no, a man is NOT owed sex just for buying a woman drinks and/or dinner. You can't reduce every situation where a man approaches a woman into a transaction.
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Retired Alaska ferryboat steward, grandparent, sometime poet. Radical yet independent of dogma. Likes nice days, playing banjo and not as yet dying of Covid.